yay im finally in the mood to blog again though i dunno what to write also
but must faster write while the happiness stays! :)

getting something that was almost once lost back can really make me happy
it just makes me appreciate it more
but that is bad..does that mean i have to keep almost losing things before i can really start to cherish them? and i think i'll slowly start forgetting to cherish them once things go back to their normal pace too..haiss

but anyway, this is supposed to be a happy post!
i'm happy today!
it's been so long since i last felt that everything in my life is going smoothly
nothing worth worrying or being sad about at all
ok maybe my imperfections, but that's another matter..something i can control anyway

haha kbox was fun!! my first time..haha and time just flew by like that..but friday was a really really nice day..haha we were at least slightly more hip and happening for once right! :p and it was so fulfilling going to suntec! though i hardly ever go there..cos i was reading bout some art exhibition in the papers that morning..then i was thinking it'd be nice if i could go see..budden i never go see such stuff..then when we reached suntec and roamed about for quite a while just trying to find an eatery (haha!) i realized that the exhibition was actually THERE!! then i was so happy..but i couldnt find that art piece they featured in the newspapers though...and i was very impressed by these 2 pieces of art made out of paper cuttings!! it was really very intricate lor..i dunno how they cut until so xi..like those kind of cards they have to use laser to cut out the design one..haha ok i think all these sound very boring..

then later kwa came! our saviour and guide! haha i think if not we'll spend another hour finding the kbox or sth..and she brought some discount card along too!

nway, HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY ZHIXIAN!! hope you had a nice one...

:( i feel like im teething i wanna bite someone!!

seeing all of you again was like the highlight of my whole week

school's getting dreadful

i've refrained from blogging so many times this week cos i know it'll all be negative stuff nway

i miss nanyang so much. if only everything now could be as simple as they were in the past..

perception
is such an all-encompassing word

ok sorry i guess i was being oversensitive as usual..but im glad i had the chance to talk things out..though i really never expected myself to even come close to letting it all out..

i really dont wanna be like this, but i cant help but get affected easily..guess its just in my nature.. :( haiz

and to xiaogui! cheer up! stop thinking u're lousy cos u're really NOT! and ur 'latest phenomenon' of twitching cheeks damn funny la..anyway i was listening to the radio just now and some guy said that twitching parts of your body like ur eyelids or fingers etc. are a sign of stress! so just relax and dont be so nervous la! the world's not out to judge us..and the worst thing about you is that the more u start reflecting about such stuff the worse you feel, and you develop misconceptions about yourself which aren't true at all! must be happy k? you still have us no matter wad! :)

haha binbin tagged me..cliched stuff as usual!

Rules: Tagged person must come up with 8 points about his/her perfect lover.... must include the gender of ur lover...

anyway, binbin! sorry i'm not gonna do it properly la..haha..aiya think the most basic thing is for him to have good morals and be nice to me can oredy..of cos must love me too!

haha which reminds me of that cards thing zit was doing for me to predict the qualities of my future husband..haha it showed that he doesnt love me!!! warghhhh so sad right

haha ok i think i sound damn bimbotic talking about such stuff i shall stop it!


dinner yesterday was nice as usual..so happy binbin finally agreed to meet us again! haha! sorry i didnt go early enough to study wif u at ny lib..i would love to go in again but i dont wanna get stared at! and to ouou! please dont eat some spicy tomyam noodles if u cant take the spice la!! so LOSER lorrr hehe..and i noticed a stark difference between hc and rj again..when we went in ytd, it was quite dark and late oredy, but it was still full of activity..ppl training for netball, the huang cheng ppl all having dinner together..xiaogui's junior even offered us pizza! haha too bad we were too full oredy..ya it was just warm and homely la..ppl staying back not for academic purposes..in rj during this hour, ppl would most probably either be mugging in the canteen or in the library..there's no mass activity to bond the people together..even hc's canteen which had birdshit on the tables seemed more romantic..haha! but rj is still nice for me la cos i think my class is nice..at least i have ppl like yk and zhixian to stay back wif me just for fun..to mug together in class or just stone around..i think it'd be scary if i were in a class whose ppl would just zao home or off for cca or sth..then i can imagine myself alone in the classroom still packing my bag with no one else around anymore..think 3m is somewhat like 4/9..apart from the fact that there are guys now la..cos i find the ppl nice on the whole..and there's not really an outcast or whatever, which i think really sucks..

haha ok i dunno where im heading towards..just felt my life is quite blessed.. :)

why cant i just be more mature about things?


i think being nonchalant and detached is good.

i realized being productive makes me very happy! cos i spend the rest of the day feeling proud of myself! hahaa...i think this must be the most productive weekend so far in jc..i actually touched the tutorials of all 4 subjects! haha ok..tyz's gonna say im showing off again..but i dont care! im still very proud of myself..so im just slacking now..

nway i took a video of rainbow and sunshine today! nothing special though..haha i wanna upload it here leh but i dunno how to! :( yunhua or yk teach me!

and i wanna say that xiaogui's parents are really really nice..one of the nicest friend's parents i've ever seen..

and to binbin, i really hope you wont be so stressed anymore..everything will be fine eventually one! :) we'll always be here for you.. :)

haha actually i have nothing to write..tyz asked me to post one.. bleah

hmmm the past week has been extremely emotional for me..i think im a very weak person..when something happens, im actually at a loss at what to do most of the time..im not even sure if what im doing is correct at all..i think i let my emotions control and run my actions too much..that i just cant think rationally sometimes..

im so glad things are ok now..its like a renewal of some sort i guess..at least i feel this way..at least this whole affair gave me the opportunity to reevaluate myself, my life and get me out of just simply wandering through life..out of not understanding myself anymore..

still, i feel i dont deserve to get things going my way all the time..it makes me feel selfish..that i only feel happy when my life is going well..i've cared too much about myself that im not fit to have such a happy life..

i wanna be a better person!


thank you zhixian for the nice long phonecall we had..it really really made me feel better.. :) you're a really great friend! caring so much even though it doesnt concern you at all.. love ya! :)

was in a good mood today so i was super productive! the most i ever been this whole yr i think..did my chem n bio tutorial! hehe..even though i took a 3 hr nap in between..

i think its really really true that you never realize the worth of something until you're close to losing it.. :(

i think i deserve to be friendless
i hate it when i become someone i don't even know, someone i hate myself to be
and the worse thing is i cant get out of that mood
sometimes i feel im less and less able to control my emotions and mood nowadays..
maybe i'll become some madman one day..
i really felt crazy the day before piano exam..it was not so much of stress..just being confused..but dunno over what also! was just very luan..and i hate it when im moody cos i start to lose myself..

piano exam sucked :( the examiner was nice though..but its over nway! :)



nway, im really really sorry for all the mood swings...

hehe i finally saw rainbow and sunshine kiss this morning! so cute lor..my mummy has been telling me about it but i never got to see it for myself..rainbow was on the box..then she was like reaching out as far as she could, then she tilted her head to one side and her beak was open..then at first sunshine just daoed her..like look at her then look away..budden finally they 'locked' beaks! haha damn cute!! and rainbow just laid two more eggs! dont think they're fertilized though..

and i was quite happy cos i suddenly felt that my mind was clear for once on the bus today..budden i started dreaming and i actually missed the stop! argh..then had to walk back all the way to the previous bus stop..haiss..and come home so early for once also no use..cos i slept my entire afternoon away! argh..

the weather was nice and sunny today..but being alone and walking under the sun sumhow just gets me into a reflective mood.. :(

im seriously gonna die for my piano exam..the more i play the more demoralized i get! cant wait for it to be over though i dont want it to come too!

haiz i dont even know what my priorities in life are anymore..

being with you all is so nice cos i can just be totally myself..even if im moody or wad it doesnt matter cos i know none of you will judge me anymore.. :) we may be the most uncool clique in the world but what's most important is how we enjoy one another's company and what bonds us together is not being cool together but being there for each other when the time comes.. i'm so thankful for all of you really! :D

auntie warsi's birthday today..wonder if she still remembers me..i wanna wish her but i dunno how to contact her! so sad she still used to call us just 2 years ago..i really miss her a lot! i couldnt really appreciate it in the past when i was young, but now i know how noble she was to have bought christmas presents for kimberly and me with her own money which she so painstakingly earned..and all the other small things..like buying this jelly thing for me cos she knew i liked it..

people just come and go in our lives..i wonder how many will actually stay on with me for life..

:( i realized its been my fault all along..i always thought i was somebody who'd always do the right stuff about friendships..like cherishing them and being thankful for them..but im wrong!! i was so stupid and irresponsible to always push the blame to other people when a friendship doesnt hold out..cos the problem lies with me..i let a barrier of awkwardness form so easily in my mind..i always say i don't keep in touch with some of my old friends cos im afraid of the awkwardness..but actually i may be the only one feeling it..but in the end the friendship suffers cos i naturally distance myself from those friends and there's a huge part of me i hide away when we finally do get to talk and update one another a little on our lives respectively..im also just lazy to go explain things right from the start, all over again, to each old friend that i speak to..

so its just me all along..

hmmm..haiz but the fact that both of us have gone on so well with our lives without the inclusion of each other shows that the friendship didnt matter that much to either of us..if not we would have done something at least to save it.. :(

now when i sometimes feel like calling up my old friends, im not even sure if they're interested in the first place to catch up with me..not that my life is very much worth knowing about anyway..i dont wanna seem like a nuisance too..

played chapteh again today! so fun..but i always feel damn lousy when playing with a group of guys..though they're v tolerant towards my lousiness..hmm always get the feeling they'd rather me not play..cos im so lousy! :( but yk and zx's always playing cards nowadays! no one to play chapteh wif me..

haha but the yk's dunno wad slap jack game very exciting! can play next time too! :)

haha binbin came over today! she was supposed to wake me up at 430 for me to practise my piano and go for piano at 5! but both of us fell asleep and slept till 515! haha so i was late for piano again..why do i always feel so sleepy before piano??

dinner today was nice! :)

haiz i think i take too many things for granted..things and people that i'll really regret not cherishing until they're no longer around..but life just goes on in such a monotonous fashion that i often forget to be thankful..haiz i need somebody to remind and scold me constantly! i really hate myself sometimes..

i feel tired so easily nowadays that i find it difficult to focus my thoughts! everything seems a blur when i try to think at all..im just like wandering through life..and my dreams are always so real that i often mix what happened in my dreams with actual events that occur in my life! ahh im dead oredy..i wanna be clearer about everything..i feel like im de guo qie guoing..it really makes me feel quite helpless at times leh.. :(

maybe i really have learnt the skill of detachment (if u all read tuesdays with morrie)..like being able to make urself not think about something cos u already know the feeling (most probably a negative one) thinking about it will give u..so u choose to not delve deep into those memories at all..though sometimes, going back to those memories, feeling sad once in a while, all over again, makes you feel more human, and rekindles those feelings which would otherwise just slowly diminish cos there're no more opportunities to feel that way and forge more memories again...